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How to Let Go

Honestly, I was surprised by the response I got from this mentorship post. I got many retweets from professionals on Twitter who have functional healthy jobs and careers. Wouldn't have guessed that this would be on the minds of so many people: How to Let Go

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My Best Work This Week: Success, Happiness, Loneliness and Pandas



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With thoughts like that, who need enemies?

"I'm such an idiot."
Why do you think no one listens to your ideas?

"My back is killing me."
Why else would your kidneys fail just before you die of a heart attack?

"I'm no good with numbers"
This is why you're poor.

"I'm broke."
Why you're broke.

"I can never remember names."
Why you have no friends.

"I'm a moron."
Why people call you a moron.

"I can't believe it."
Why your imagination is crippled

What other self fulfilling - self sabotaging profesies have you heard? Speak out at http://rawksoup.com/mentorship

Filed under  //   beliefs   group psychology   nlp   psychology  


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Is Resenting Your Mom and Dad Still Effecting Your Life?

Dear Subscribers, 

An amazingly successful and beautiful woman in NYC with a PhD asked me 
a shocking question. She said that her life was in a constant cycle of 
ruins and destruction because of her trying to please her parents. She 
said that her resentment toward her mom and dad drove her to make 
decisions that hurt her to hurt them. 

If someone as brilliant and successful as she is wanted to break the 
cycle of resenting her parents and hurting yourself to hurt mom and 
dad, I asked, "How many people would like to hear about releasing 
their resentment (even subconscious) toward mom and dad? How many of 
your life changing decisions and patterns are rooted in your anger at 
your parents instead of your heart's true desires?" 

If you want to keep your relationship with your parents exactly as it 
is, don't click http://rawksoup.com/anger.html 

Personally, I released a tear or two as I was recording this. It made 
me appreciate and love my parents so much more just talking about it. 

So if you want to see how powerfully your success, happiness, and life 
gets flung forward as if cradled in a sling shot, take a moment. Just 
think about clicking on this link: http://rawksoup.com/anger.html 

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Also: When People are Most Likely To Break Up... And Why: 
http://rawksoup.com/neighborhood/pg/blog/developer/read/3020/when-peo... 

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How To Be Happy: http://rawksoup.com/neighborhood/pg/blog/developer/read/2968/how-happ... 

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Questions? 
Ask in http://rawksoup.com/mentor/ 

- Thanks! - WAN. 

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Happiness, Hidden Belief Systems, Success

Wow. It's been a busy week. Quickly, here are my favorite blog posts of the week leading up to all hallows eve...

1) The 39 Hidden Beliefs of the Most Successful and Happy People On Earth... (see video too)

http://rawksoup.com/beliefs.html

2) Why You're Actually Happy When You're Miserable... 

http://rawksoup.com/neighborhood/pg/blog/developer/read/2968/how-happiness-feels

3) How to Live a Charmed Life. How to Get Lucky...

http://rawksoup.com/neighborhood/pg/blog/developer/read/2752/how-to-make-everything-go-your-way-being-lucky

Let me know what you think and do say hi on http://twitter.com/journik

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Dao of War: How to Defeat Jerks and Idiots

It never fails.

There's always some chump who specializes in dumping his insecurities, anger, fear, and corrupted self-image onto your lap. As soon as he walks into the building, his presumptuousness, ego, and arrogance wafts through the halls like three week old toxic sushi remains. It's not fun.

But really, it's not him that makes you hate getting up in the morning. It's not not him that makes you hesitate that one extra moment before you swipe your FOB key card. What makes your life miserable is the fact that after some conditioning, you start second guessing yourself. You start wondering what YOU did to "attract" him into your life. You start wondering if you really resemble some of his hurled accusations.

You may even start resenting yourself for not ever standing up to the jerk!

It's like when Elaine told Seinfeld that she wanted to date "Mr. Worst Breaker Upper." She just had to see what all the women were so distraught about after they stopped dating this guy. After a while, Elaine dumps him saying he had no features that would crush a woman's heart. He was unattractive, not witty, not even kind. As he walks out, under his breath, he mutters, "So long, 'forehead!'"

At first, Elaine brushed off the remark.

Then, over the balance of the show, she ends up desperately seeking reassurance from every friend and every mirror that her forehead wasn't gargantuan.

So how do you break this cycle? How do you break jerks and idiots?

You may find the answer surprising...

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